Let Time Stand Still

Do you ever feel yourself growing older? Probably not. It's such a gradual process that, even though your mom asks on your birthday, "How does it feel to finally be (insert age here)," you might think, "Well, I feel exactly the same way I did yesterday."

Most kids think they can't grow up fast enough. When you're five, you can't wait to turn six. When you're 15, you can't wait to turn 16. Kids ache for freedom and responsibility. And it just doesn't seem to happen as quickly as they want it to.

But some kids actually do grow up much too fast. They transform from children to parents at a pace that almost seems instantaneous, having to take care of a handful of younger siblings or take care of themselves, having to deal with stresses like having a home, having enough food, or having adequate clothes. Responsibility is thrown at them instead of handed to them. They have it, whether they like it or not. Whether they chose it or not. I can imagine at this point, a child would ache to be taken care of rather than being the one taking care of others. They might wish to be dependent rather than independent. Slwoing down the clock might not seem so bad anymore.

What would we do if all the children in the world became tiny adults? From whom would we remember to have an insatiable curiosity for the world around us? From whom would we remember to have so much joy that we can't sit still? From whom would we remember to dance and not care who's watching, to sing and not care who's listening? From whom would we be reminded what it's like to have child-like faith?

How do we help to give a child back their childhood?

I feel like what we do at the Tyler Square Youth Program pumps kids full of opportunities to just be who they are: a kid. We do more than that, though, we give kids the opportunity to spend time with their families and to play the role of a kid within the family dynamic. We have Teen Late Nights, Family Nights, Story times, Skate Days, etc. Sometimes it seems like just a lot meaningless fun. But it's not. These are opportunities for families to enjoy each other, to forget about the stresses of life, to build relationships and memories with one another, to learn how to spend quality time together as a family without sitting in front of a television screen. They get out and enjoy the world around them. Together.

Birthdays

The First Tuesdays of the month at the Family Shelter are full of laughter, surprises, and unique activities. Tuesday nights are family night where families are able to have time tasked with creating memories and doing something fun together. The first Tuesday of each month, however, is set aside to celebrate all the youth birthdays of the previous month and all families are always invited to come and participate. For Previous celebrations there have been puppies and puppy chow, kids making their own unique Italian cream sodas, personalized cupcakes, games, and always a story. This month's celebration was yet again another success. The children, along with their parents, were all able to make their own chocolate covered bananas with nuts, sprinkles, and coconut. Without the help of our some of our great volunteers, Kathie and Katherine, the celebration for the kids would not be what it is. Katie always comes prepared with her family with fun activities and goodies for the kids and Katherine pours love into the kids and brings her favorite books to share with all. It is truly a special night for the kids whose birthday is being celebrated. There are usually about 25 clients, staff, and volunteers to celebrate with and sing happy birthday. The kids love all the attention they get as they blow out their candles and open presents; the attention they so much deserve. Thank you to all the volunteers and financial supporters!
I bet one of your best memories when you were little was at one of your birthday parties being surrounded by people who care about you. If your family had no means to give you a party you would be without that memory. If you want to help out for the next youth birthday celebration in July for the Family Shelter to continue making great memories for the kids with your creative ideas and servant heart shoot me an email or call me. Brian 970-231-8827/beggers84@gmail.com.

I am a firm believer that God is working in amazing ways through the Tacoma Rescue Mission to transform people's lives. After having personally witnessed changes both big and small, I know people are living better quality lives due at least partially to the work and outreach of the Tacoma Rescue Mission. But TRM is not some faceless organization. It is made up of people and places that ensure good things continue to happen to restore and heal our city. This includes the staff, the facilities, the donors, and volunteers.

Do you wish to put your hand in some of the good things that are happening in the city of Tacoma? If so, you might want to consider being a volunteer during the month of July for our kids' summer program called SLAM (which stands for Students Living A Mission). The program starts July 5th and runs Monday through Friday, 12 to 4 PM until July 30th at the People's Community Center on MLK. We will be working with kids who are K-5 who are both from the Tacoma Rescue Mission and from the surrounding Hilltop community. We have a lot of fun going on field trips, doing fun games and activities, having guest speakers, doing service projects for the community, and doing a lot of learning and growing in the midst of it all (for kids AND the leaders).

If you enjoy working with kids and could see yourself volunteering anywhere from once a week to once a day, then please let us know. We can use all the help we can get!

If interested, e-mail Kim Maki at makisolomon@aol.com and she can connect you with a time and an age group that would best suit you.

Thank you!